Misty Lovelace says she is polyamorous. At some point, I would have thought this lifestyle choice was a good idea. But after having a child, I can't see how responsible parents would have much time nor energy for additional lovers. Perhaps this is only a problem before your children reach those immense college debt years. But also maybe, us humans need to choose between adding to the population or always seeking the next strange. There are some asses we are destined to appreciate from a distance. This is our painful reality.